You often hear stories about gay people who marry straight and then the spouse is asked “How could the spouse not know?” Fran “The Nanny” Drescher provided an answer at the Stonewall Community Vision Foundation awards.

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"People always say to me [of her ex], ‘How did you not know?’ He loves decorating and fashion and clothes, but we actually did have sex a lot. I didn’t know at the time, though, that in his mind he was f - - king the bartender at Olive Garden.”

I guess when you put it like that, it makes sense. Have you ever thought of someone else while you were having sex?  If so, who was it?

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