One of the big questions that causes tension before a wedding is the guest list.

Everybody feels that the have a claim on invitations. There's always that family member that the bride really doesn't know, but family members insist they need to be invited. I'm pretty sure I didn't know everyone at my wedding. But since my family was relatively small, we didn't have the challenge of having to have separate priority lists.

Jessica Gibson is still a newlywed and Producer Kristen is in the planning stages for her upcoming wedding.

They joined me on-air to discuss the dreaded list: who you want to invite and who you HAVE TO invite. And who gets a 'plus one' and who doesn't...

Bill Spadea is on the air weekdays from 6 to 10 a.m., talkin’ Jersey, taking your calls at 1-800-283-1015. Tweet him @NJ1015 or @BillSpadea. The opinions expressed here are solely those of Bill Spadea.

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